Digital literacy is no longer optional. Children who grow up without a framework for evaluating what they encounter online, understanding how platforms work, and protecting their own information will be at a systematic disadvantage — both as targets of manipulation and as people trying to find reliable information in an environment designed to exploit cognitive…
Resilience — the ability to recover from setbacks, adapt to difficulty, and keep going when things are hard — is consistently among the outcomes parents say they most want for their children. It’s also one of the outcomes most directly affected by parenting choices, in both directions. The research on resilience in children is well-developed,…
Gratitude is one of the most extensively studied positive emotions, and its effects on wellbeing are among the most robust findings in positive psychology. Children who develop a genuine gratitude practice show better mental health outcomes, stronger relationships, higher life satisfaction, and more prosocial behavior. The question for parents isn’t whether gratitude matters — it’s…
Family meetings sound like something out of a 1970s parenting book. The reality is that families who hold regular, structured meetings report more cooperation, fewer recurring conflicts, and children who feel more ownership over family life. The research on this is thinner than some parenting topics, but the practical evidence from families who use them…
Picky eating is one of the most reliably stressful parts of feeding children. Estimates vary, but somewhere between 20 and 50 percent of parents describe their child as a picky eater at some point. Most picky eating resolves on its own. Some doesn’t. And the strategies parents use in response to it matter more than…
John Gottman has spent four decades studying what makes marriages succeed and fail. His lab at the University of Washington can predict divorce with better than 90% accuracy by observing couples for as little as fifteen minutes. What he found isn’t surprising once you understand it — but it’s counterintuitive enough that most couples don’t…
Emotional regulation is one of the most important skills a child can develop — and one that parents have very limited ability to teach directly. You can’t explain emotional regulation to a four-year-old in the middle of a meltdown. What you can do is create the conditions where it develops naturally over time, and model…
Most parents yell at some point. The question isn’t whether it happens — it’s whether it works, and whether there are better tools. The research on this is pretty clear: yelling is effective at stopping behavior in the short term and damaging to your relationship and the child’s development over time. But knowing that doesn’t…